Ten cards, and nothing has to be finished in one go.
Each one comes from the Lounge Method: noticing what arrived, naming what took over, pausing without disappearing, and reaching again. Some are for the hard moments. Some are for the good ones you’d like more of.
Pass is on every card, not buried in the rules. Keep the ones that land, put the rest back, and come again another week.
These cards are for ordinary relationship conflict. They are not a tool for coercive control, intimidation, threats, stalking, sexual pressure or violence. If someone is using them to press you, put them down.
Pass is a whole answer. So is “I cannot find it in my body”, and so is not tonight. Nobody has to earn their way out of a card.
The ten
Read the question. Then turn it over.
Every card has a second side. That is where the words go.
How to use them
No rules to learn. A few that help.
Read all ten and pick the moment you recognise. There is no order and nothing to win.
Every question is about you, not about them. That is on purpose. It keeps the card a reach, not a verdict.
Not everyone thinks out loud. Write the answer instead, or take the card and bring it back tomorrow.
Keep the ones that landed. They are the fastest way into a first conversation with me, and they save you the summarising.
The printable
Take them off the screen.
All ten cards are free to read here. If you’d like them on paper, the printable set comes by email, with blank cards for the ones only you need. Print it, cut it, keep it somewhere you’ll see it.
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